
By Aequitas
Sept. 24, 2011
MIAMI – Piercings, tattoos, and other forms of body modification have been part of the human experience for millennia. The motivations our distant ancestors embellished their skins were similar to what compels us today. Highlighting one’s physical beauty, showing off artistry, symbolizing self-expression and linking people with a particular identity are commonalities shared across distant times and lands.
For many people, bodily markings also symbolized cultural rites of passage and spiritual initiatory experiences. Today, many of us relate to modifying simply as vogue de jour. What was once shocking and fringe has become very normalized in our culture. A 2006 study conducted by the American Academy of Dermatology found that 24% of Americans between 18 and 50 are tattooed. While each has their own particular motivations for doing so, it’s very rare that you hear of wanting a piercing for the main purpose of a religious or spiritual act, except when controversy makes headlines.
In the past eight years among the Florida Pagan community – up until this month – I had never heard of Pagan ritual specifically using piercing as the focal point of an Esbat. Just to clarify, I’m not talking about the many Pagans, Wiccans and spiritual kindred among us who receive piercings or ink to dedicate to a particular deity or spiritual expression after they have already dedicated at some other moment and place. What I’m describing here is within a full community ritual, the participant gets pierced at the penultimate height of the ritual itself, linking the physical act, the symbolic expression and the magical rite all into one.
On September 12, as the full moon rose in the sign of Pisces, nine members of the South Florida Pagan Meetup group gathered at 7:45pm and guided Carla into an initiatory dedication to her matron Goddess Demeter. Bathed in darkness illuminated by tea lights and lanterns, the rite included anointing oils, incense, energy raising and drumming. Carla’s ears were pierced by the ritual Priestess Jesi Ruiz at the pinnacle of ritual. Held on the premises of Unitarian Universalist of Miami, Carla was presented to the community while a potluck feast was shared by all.
The events leading up to this unprecedented community collaboration had Fortuna smiling widely upon the efforts of many talented Pagans. The idea was conceived by Jesi Ruiz, a piercing artist at Phat Joes Tattoo Parlor in Miami, and also a member of the South Florida Pagan Meetup group.
Jesi recounts, “This had always been an idea in my head, but it didn’t start out as refined as what occurred that evening. When I was training to become a piercing artist, I had traveled to California study under Fakir Musafar at his training school. Fakir, the father of the modern primitive movement, has a philosophy that purports piercing is not just about putting a hole into your body. His work incorporates piercing as a transformative spiritual act, symbolizing a reclamation of self. I had seen these ‘spiritual piercings’ conducted and I participated in one myself. Ever since that day, I’ve wanted so badly to bring this back here to our Florida Pagan community.”
Jesi kept speaking about her vision for over a years time. She eventually attracted Carla who was interested in the idea of a religious piercing. Carla is attending a Paganism 101 class with Humberto, a longstanding member of Pagan Meetup, where she recalls a pivotal meditation exercise. Carla says, “Humberto had urged us to explore and find a pantheon to work with. I was researching the Greek pantheon, and I found myself really drawn toward Demeter, the mother. When we did the meditation exercise, I felt this weighty, earthy energy surround me, I was definitely shifting into an altered state of awareness. The energy I felt, it so resonated with me. After this experience, I knew I had found my connection to the mother, and to mother nature, and the pathway for finding grounding in my life.”
Suzy, another longstanding member with Pagan Meetup and a Tarot reader for over 17 years, was approached by Jesi to help create and organize the community ritual for Carla. Suzy commented, “I helped Jesi find different ways to manifest her vision of the ritual. The best rituals I’ve either lead or attended were not spectator sports. I encouraged her to get everyone involved. We talked about ways to include each one that was special to that person. I was touched that she and Carla asked me to be a part of this.”
Suzy added, “This was not only an initiation for Carla, it was an initiation for Jesi, and for the Meetup group people as well.” Jesi interjects, “When I started going to Meetup, I felt like such a newbie. I would come home and find my parents had gone through all my Pagan books and had thrown them in the trash. Never did I imagine myself as someone who would be leading ritual for a community. I would just be happy to be invited somewhere just to watch on the sidelines. Without even realizing it, I found myself capable as a center-point in a ritual. Suzy really was a great mirror for me and a mentor in this process.”
Suzy says, “We are coming into a fascinating phase of our growth as a Pagan community. We’ve done all the book stuff, and we’ve learned a lot from each other. Now we’re coming to the point where we are taking the initiative and making our own rituals. This is really the next step is for us. Creating our own rituals that are not out of someone else’s book, but are things that we as human beings want to really celebrate. I’m really excited to be a part of that.”
Jesi continues, “When Carla told me this was a ritual about Demeter, it gave me the idea of a womb. In the myth, Demeter goes searching for Persephone, and there is loss and grief, and Persephone does comes back. I pulled from the myth this ‘descent, search and ascent’ theme. This provided the structure for the ritual. Carla was blindfolded as she was circled around the table, symbolizing the descent into the underworld. After the first piercing, the blindfold was removed. Once the second piercing was complete, we brought her up from the table, she ascended, and we repeated her name and presented her to the community.”
Carla shares, “When I was on that table, I had this intense feeling of heat pouring off of me. Living in Miami, I’ve felt hot before, but I’ve never felt heat radiating off of me before like that. I felt very safe, and enclosed, like I was in a cocoon. It felt like I was inside something. Even with the blindfold on, while Marian was guiding me, I was able to let go and have other people guide me. I felt the piercing, but it didn’t hurt at all. I sinked into it.”
Carla continues, “This whole ritual was very special and significant to me. September 12th is my aunt’s birthday. The four women in the picture on the altar are my grandmother, my mother and my two aunts. All four of these women were a huge influence in my life.” (Author note: the number on the door to the ritual room was “4″, serendipitously). “My grandmother and my one aunt have passed on. I feel like my aunt has watched over me in my life. This is also the traditional time of the Eleusinian mysteries. It was a full moon and it was on a Monday evening. The other amazing thing is that the ritual started right on time, an incredible feat for many Pagans – not to mention Latin Pagans!”
Carla also shares, “This whole ritual was about me embracing myself. I realize I don’t have to live my life by someone else’s standards. This is my version of life. I can be eccentric. The physicality of the piercing was about embracing my own eccentricity. There is so much going on in my life right now, I’m trying to connect my spirituality, my belly dancing, and all of the other things I have going on. In one of my Tarot readings with Suzy, I am like a spider that has built her web and now I can connect with that spot. Sometimes everything around me just needs to happen. And I can rejoice in being the center of all of it.”
After the ritual, Carla was presented with gifts and tokens to commemorate the experience. “I loved everyone’s gift, I wasn’t expecting any. It felt like a birthday. It’s was a rebirth, actually, in a way.”
This first successful piercing ritual has created a buzz among the Pagan Meetup group. Jesi has articulated another piercing ritual will be conducted soon. She has already accumulated a waiting list of eager souls who are awaiting the opportunity to participate in a Pagan piercing ritual experience.
The South Florida Pagan Meetup group thanks the contributions of WW Photography for the beautiful ritual pictures. To contact Jesi the piercing artist, visit her at Phat Joe’s Tattoo Parlor on Bird Road in Miami. The South Florida Pagan Meetup group has a variety of meetings and events available on their website.












So many cultures have incorporated body modifications into rituals and especially rites of passage that this ceremony by the Meetup group makes perfect sense! How wonderful that Carla was able to be witnessed and supported by her community. I remember one FPG many years ago where there was a professional tattoo artist on site and many people got tats as part of the whole festival experience…but overall we often have to separate our body mods from our community rituals. Its great that the Meetup group was willing to be there for Carla and make this happen.
Piercing and tattooing have been part of multiple religious practices in many cultures including but not limited to the African people and the indigenous tribes worldwide. It is said that when you endure the pain you are sacrificing a part of yourself and your physical body to connect with the higher being and the ancestors that surround us. Even though this art has been lost in today’s society where most people are ignorant to the tribal ways and significance of one’s make up, hair style, tattoos and piercings. It is a very sacred form of communication and connection to the divine and to the mysteries of the unknown. It is working directly with brother crow and the balance of the yin & yang. The art of said practice is an initiation and it is the key to enlightment. It is truly a blessing to know Jessi and to see that she is using her gift to educate others of the importance of this ceremony and how it should be respected and treated. The community is very blessed to have shared in this and I hope that this continues to raise awareness so that new generations as well as more modern cultures embrace the sacred ways of the shaman and treat the body as a direct connection to the divine through the many practices of self sacrifice and infinite connection.
Mnay Blessings,
Marizel
The Witchs Garden
This is awesome Joseph, thank you so much for putting this together. The ritual as a whole was a great success and I’m glad to see the support of the community behind it. Once again, I couldn’t have done this without your help and the help of everyone in my Pagan family. I love you all and I can’t wait for the next one!
It was a wonderful evening that brought together elements of traditional pagan ritual, the modern primitive movement and a diverse, close knit community. I think one of the things we see here is that we’re not asking an “authority” to provide an event; Jessi wanted to experience piercing in a ritual setting and she discovered that a lot of people were open to the idea. The rest, as they say, is history. And future. And evolving into a whole new kind of ceremony. This is what can happen with friendships that are not limited to one group and include a varied group of people from the wider pagan community.
I feel the need to add our facebook page here as the website is updated infrequently!
http://www.facebook.com/PhatJoesTattoo
Hi,
I am working on a docuseries for a major cable tv network. We want the show to be similar to “The Real Housewives of__________,” but be “The Real Witches of____________.” (L.A. or other major city) I would like to show the history and practice of witchcraft within the series. How do you follow the practice? Are their conflicts within your family or friend circle? What do you enjoy most about your practice? Is there a message you wish this show to convey? We are looking for great stories and great personalities. Send me an email if you are interested, and tell me a bit about yourself. Please include a photo, if possible.
Thank You,
Mary Fry
http://www.imdb.com/name/nm2926501/